The holidays have a way of magnifying everything—the laughter sounds louder, the lights seem brighter and the love feels bigger. But for someone who has experienced pregnancy loss, this season can also magnify the absence—the quiet that follows what might have been, the space where joy and grief coexist.
While so many people are busy wrapping presents, baking cookies and taking family photos in matching pajamas, others are simply trying to make it through the end of the year without breaking. For them, the holidays can serve as a painful reminder of what they hoped for, what they once had, or what they are still waiting to hold.
If you love someone who’s grieving a miscarriage, it can be difficult to know how to show up. You may worry about saying the wrong thing or doing too much, or not enough. There are no perfect words to ease this kind of pain, but there are gestures that can speak for you. A thoughtful gift can offer comfort, connection and a quiet acknowledgment that their grief matters. It can be a way of saying, “I see you. I remember with you. You are not alone.”
This guide was created to help you do exactly that. These are not flashy or festive gifts meant to distract from sadness—they are gentle, meaningful items that invite rest, warmth and remembrance. They are things that say, “Take care of yourself,” without demanding that anyone move on or pretend to feel merry before they are ready.
Whether you are buying for a friend, a sister, a partner or even yourself, each one offers a small but powerful way to bring softness to a difficult season and remind the person receiving them that healing is not linear, that grief can coexist with gratitude, and that love does not end when loss begins.
If you take away one thing from this list, let it be this: showing up for someone in grief does not require grand gestures. It requires presence, compassion, and the courage to acknowledge what is real—even when it is painful. That, more than anything else, is what makes a gift meaningful.
Wemore Fleece Weighted Blanket for Adults
There’s something about the weight of a good blanket that feels like being held—and this one delivers exactly that. The Wemore Weighted Blanket combines a buttery-soft sherpa underside with a smooth, jacquard flannel top in a calming cream hue. At 15 pounds, it offers just enough pressure to soothe the nervous system and quiet racing thoughts, making it the perfect companion for sleepless nights or slow mornings on the couch. It’s comfort that doesn’t need words—a hug when you need one most.
Buy now | $69
Salt & Stone Saffron & Cedar Candle
A scent can shift a whole mood—and this one does it with quiet confidence. Salt & Stone’s Saffron & Cedar Candle fills the room with a warm, woodsy blend of smoky cedar, cardamom, and ambered saffron that feels both grounding and luxurious. Hand-poured in Los Angeles and housed in a minimalist glass vessel, it burns clean and slow, creating a cocoon of calm that lingers long after the flame goes out. It’s less about masking grief and more about softening it—one slow breath at a time.
Buy now | $49
Graphene-Infused Weighted Heating Pad
Even after you have recovered physically from a miscarriage, the emotional toll continues to weigh heavily. A hug can do wonders, and warmth can be its own kind of therapy. This graphene-infused heating pad delivers fast, even heat that sinks deep into tight shoulders and sore muscles, easing both physical tension and emotional fatigue. The weighted design adds gentle pressure—like a calming hand on the back—while six customizable heat settings and an auto-off timer make it easy to unwind safely. It’s the kind of practical, nurturing gift that says: It’s okay to rest. You not only deserve it, you need it.
Buy now | $49
Tea Forté Tea Tasting Assortment Gift Chest
Sometimes healing begins with something as simple as a cup of tea. This elegant gift chest from Tea Forté offers 40 handcrafted pyramid infusers in soothing blends like chamomile, green mango peach, and earl grey—each individually wrapped and beautifully presented. From the gentle ritual of steeping to the first slow sip, it’s a moment of pause and presence in the midst of heartache. A comforting reminder that even small acts of care can feel restorative.
Buy now | $69
Slip Silk Sleepmask
Rest doesn’t come easily after loss—but this luxurious sleep mask makes it a little softer. Made from pure mulberry silk, Slip’s cult-favorite eye mask blocks out light while being gentle on skin and lashes. The smooth, cooling fabric feels indulgent yet soothing—like a whisper of care during restless nights. It’s a small, beautiful reminder that her rest matters, too.
Buy now | $50
Cozy Earth Luxe Bath Robe
There are few things more healing than wrapping yourself in pure softness—and this robe delivers just that. Made from Cozy Earth’s signature bamboo-viscose blend, it’s temperature-regulating, breathable, and unbelievably plush, offering comfort that feels like a warm embrace. Perfect for slow mornings, post-shower moments, or simply existing in softness on the hard days, it’s a luxurious reminder to care for yourself the way you would a loved one.
Buy now | $118
Hot Water Bottle with Knit Cover
Simple, timeless, and unexpectedly comforting—this classic hot water bottle delivers warmth exactly where it’s needed most. The soft knit cover adds a cozy touch, while the two-liter capacity holds heat for hours of gentle relief. Whether used to ease tension, soothe cramps, or offer comfort during a quiet night in, it’s the kind of old-fashioned self-care that never stops working. Sometimes, healing starts with something this simple: warmth against the body, comfort against the ache.
Buy now | $22
INSIDE THEN OUT “Dig Deeper” Guided Journal
When words feel tangled, writing can be a way through. This guided journal from INSIDE THEN OUT offers 180 undated prompts designed to nurture healing, gratitude, and self-discovery—without pressure or perfection. Each page invites reflection at your own pace, whether it’s one line a day or a full letter to yourself. Thoughtful and beautifully made, it’s a space for her to process what’s too heavy to say out loud—and to slowly rediscover hope in her own handwriting.
Buy now | $32
Wooden Angel Baby Memorial Keepsake Box
Some memories are too sacred to tuck away in a drawer. This beautifully crafted wooden keepsake box offers a dedicated space to hold what remains—an ultrasound photo, a handwritten note, a tiny onesie, or a symbolic ornament. Inside rests a delicate wooden angel baby, a simple but powerful reminder of love that endures beyond loss. Thoughtful and deeply personal, it’s a gift that honors both the heartbreak and the bond that will always remain.
Buy now | $38
AtPerry’s Natural Healing Crystals Set
For those drawn to meaning in the natural world, this crystal collection offers a beautiful way to channel calm and healing energy. The 16-piece set includes both raw and tumbled stones—like amethyst for peace, rose quartz for love, black tourmaline for protection, and citrine for light—each nestled in a wooden keepsake box. Whether displayed on a nightstand or held in moments of reflection, these stones serve as gentle reminders of strength, connection, and the slow return of light after loss.
Buy now | $35
Normalize It: Upending the Silence, Stigma, and Shame That Shape Women’s Lives
Written by psychologist and I Had a Miscarriage author Dr. Jessica Zucker, this book is a rallying cry for women everywhere who’ve been told to stay quiet about their pain. Through raw storytelling and research, Zucker unpacks the cultural narratives that keep women silent about grief, loss, and their bodies—and offers a path toward healing through honesty and connection. For anyone who’s ever felt unseen in their suffering, this book feels like both validation and revolution.
Buy now | $20
Double-Sided Personalized Ultrasound Pendant Necklace
A deeply personal keepsake for parents who want to hold their baby close in a tangible way. This customizable pendant features a double-sided design—one side engraved with a name, date, or message, and the other imprinted with your baby’s ultrasound image. Available as a necklace or keychain, it’s a unisex piece that blends subtlety and sentiment, offering comfort in the everyday moments when words fall short. A meaningful reminder that love never leaves.
Buy now | $42
“Carried for a Moment” Baby Loss Ornament
Delicate and deeply meaningful, this ornament is a tribute to the babies who were carried for only a moment but loved for a lifetime. Crafted with care and inscribed with words of remembrance, it’s a small symbol of enduring love and connection. Whether displayed on a holiday tree or kept somewhere private and sacred, it offers comfort to grieving parents and a way to honor the space their child will always hold in their hearts.
Buy now | $24
Ceramic Memorial Votive Candle Holder Set
Light can be its own form of remembrance. This ceramic votive candle holder set comes with ten tealights, each one offering a moment of quiet reflection for a loved one gone too soon. Elegant and understated, it’s perfect for creating a small ritual of remembrance—lighting a candle during the holidays, anniversaries, or any time the ache of loss feels close. A gentle way to honor memory, warmth, and enduring love.
Buy now | $32
Daily Harvest Gift Box
When grief makes even the simplest tasks feel heavy, nourishment should be effortless. A Daily Harvest gift box delivers ready-to-blend smoothies, comforting harvest bowls, and nourishing flatbreads made from real, organic ingredients—no prep, no pressure. It’s the kind of care that meets someone where they are: in need of ease, warmth, and a reminder that they still deserve to be nourished. A thoughtful, practical gift that says, take care of yourself today—I’ll handle the rest.
Buy now | Prices vary
Herbivore Coconut Milk Bath Soak
Soft, soothing, and subtly scented, this luxurious coconut milk soak transforms an ordinary bath into an act of care. Made with vegan, plant-based ingredients, it deeply hydrates and leaves skin feeling silky and restored. The gentle coconut aroma feels like calm itself—warm, familiar, and grounding. It’s a small invitation to pause, breathe, and let the water hold what words can’t.
Buy now | $32
Gift Basket Village Soup Gift Basket
Nothing says comfort quite like a warm bowl of soup. This thoughtfully curated basket includes a variety of dried soup mixes, instant packets, crackers, and bowls—everything needed to create simple, nourishing meals with ease. It’s the perfect care package for someone who needs warmth without effort, offering a little taste of home and healing in every spoonful. A cozy, practical reminder that comfort can be both emotional and edible.
Buy now | $58
Handmade Baby Footprint Charm Necklace
Beautiful in its simplicity, this handcrafted necklace offers a tender way to honor a baby gone too soon. The delicate charm, etched with tiny footprints, serves as a daily reminder of love that never fades. Whether worn close to the heart or kept in a special place, it’s a timeless keepsake that brings quiet comfort and connection to grieving parents. A small piece of jewelry with immeasurable meaning.
Buy now | $45
Watercolor Angel Baby Memorial Art Print
Soft and ethereal, this watercolor wall art offers a gentle way to honor a baby’s memory. Featuring a delicate angel motif and muted tones, it brings warmth and peace to any space—whether displayed in a bedroom, hallway, or quiet corner of remembrance. Ready to hang and beautifully made, it’s a touching gift that helps transform grief into a lasting tribute of love and light.
Buy now | $42
Easyplant Fiddle Leaf Fig Tree
Vibrant, resilient, and full of quiet strength, the fiddle leaf fig is a beautiful symbol of growth through grief. Easyplant’s self-watering version makes it simple to care for—no green thumb required—while its broad, sculptural leaves bring warmth and life to any room. Unlike cut flowers, this living gift endures, offering a daily reminder that healing, like growth, takes patience and light.
Buy now | $89
